Dutch magazine ‘Flair’
The original article ‘Voor één keer een triootje, met een gigolo’, from the Dutch magazine ‘Flair’ can be read here. The translated text of the article is written out below.
A threesome for once, with a gigolo
A threesome with a gigolo; it was Peter’s (36) greatest wish to see his girlfriend José (35) having sex with another man. This other man was René (37), for €300 all-in. Separately, they shared their experience.
Jose, the lady
José (35): “I’m certainly not bored with Peter. We are sensual people who still have good sex together every day. Our sex life is great, precisely because we are honest about our fantasies.
At the top of my bucket list was a threesome and on Peter’s was the wish to see me have sex with another man. But then, how do you find a suitable candidate? I think going to a swingers club is a bridge too far. I get visions of dirty men and that’s why a gigolo who you can screen in advance seemed like a better alternative. That was quite a job by the way. Google showed about three hundred of them.
After an extensive selection, Peter and I decided that we would first carefully try something with an erotic masseur. They don’t go all-the-way, but do touch the intimate parts though. That way we could both get used to the idea. Me from strange hands on my body, and Peter from seeing his girlfriend with another man. But unfortunately that masseur was not a success. His site said he was 1.85 m, but he was shorter than me and I am 1.76 m. He massaged me, but without much feeling. His looks were also a disappointment. Not a big well hung, sturdy adonis, but more of a thin little guy.
However, we did not give up, especially because we already had nice email contact with Gigolo René. His site looked very professional and he was one of the few who dared to send photos of himself. He was good looking and had a nice face. Both Peter and I had a good feeling about him and we took the chance.
We were extremely nervous beforehand. I lost five kilos that week due to the stress and on the evening itself I downed two Malibu’s. Peter had finished a liter and a half of wine. René turned out to be a slender man with nice long legs. He came in confidently, introduced himself and said, “I’m going to make love to you and the three of us will have a party.” It all sounded promising, although my tough gigolo stuck to a boring glass of water.
After ten minutes René and I went upstairs, where he would massage me to get used to him and I would get in the mood. Peter and I had emailed him what we did and did not want. No anal sex, safe sex and we had to be able to stop at any time if we wanted to. That knowledge gave me a safe feeling.
René had me lie down on a towel and stripped me down to my lingerie. He started massaging me and it felt okay. We didn’t kiss, I didn’t want to do anything without Peter around. After half an hour René asked Peter to come upstairs and participate. I took off my lingerie and enjoyed the four hands touching me from then on. It was wonderful.
I took turns kissing both men. René kept asking me if I still liked it and if I still wanted it. That was a little too much for my liking. I’m attracted to voices and he didn’t have a manly voice and I’d rather he didn’t talk so much! However, I found it very hot that I was kissing René while Peter was licking me. It was as if I were starring in a porn movie.
What I enjoyed most was Peet’s happiness; he didn’t seem jealous at all. His eyes were shining, this was exactly what he had wanted. I didn’t orgasm through René’s tongue, my own husband had to do that. René knew exactly which buttons to push and he is very skilled, but he did not trigger me enough.
Looking back, his appearance was a bit disappointing to me. My fantasy image of a gigolo is a tough, big man who, so to speak, puts me against the wall and makes me grunt with pleasure. Someone like Richard Gere or maybe Sean Connery. Porn, but with respect. René was too soft for me, too careful. He will be great for lonely ladies who have bad experiences with sex, because he is very attentive and puts you completely at ease. However, he gave me too much of the feeling that he wanted to make love to me instead of having hot sex, and I only made love to my own Peter.
Worth repeating? Well, only with a very beautiful, hot man whom we meet spontaneously on a Spanish beach. I’m done with pre-arranged threesomes.”
Peter, her boyfriend
Peter (36): “I am a terribly jealous guy. If José ever thinks of cheating on me, I’ll freak out. José is a very hot woman who gets lots of attention from men. Customers of her restaurant in particular challenge her to have sex with them. I don’t like that at all.
Knowing this, it may seem strange that I found it exciting to see my girlfriend making out with another man. The idea of hiring a gigolo is ninety percent mine, but it’s really not self-torture. I like watching porn movies where a woman is pleasured by two men. I thought it would be a great thrill if that happened to my own girlfriend, but then just the two of us with a professional lover. One that didn’t expect anything from me, since I am straight.
José and I shared this fantasy and the more we talked about it, the more we knew we wanted to make it come true. It caused quite some anticipation in bed, and before I knew it José was searching on Google for suitable gigolos. There was a soldier who she found super attractive, but he charged four hundred euros for his services, and he was perhaps a bit too handsome. With René we both had a good feeling. He came across as sympathetic. I sent him naughty messages asking him to give my girl a good pounding. He did want that.
On a certain Thursday evening he showed up at our door. I drank some courage to myself beforehand. Saying and doing are different things and a previous experience with an erotic masseur had turned out to be very disappointing. René looked a bit thin. Not a tough big womanizer, more of a skinny guy. He immediately walked up to me, which gave me confidence. He said that he would first give José a relaxing massage one on one, but that nothing else would happen without me being there. I found it quite difficult that they went up together, although I understood that it was necessary to break the ice. After twenty minutes and two beers I went upstairs to take a look. José was lying on the bed, René stood next to her in his underwear.
I walked up to José and started kissing her and licking her pussy. She pulled off René’s boxers and took his cock in her mouth. Okay, I thought, so this is it, we’ve started.
The hottest moment for me was when José returned after she had gone to the toilet. René and I lay naked next to each other on the bed and she could choose who she wanted. To tease me she got down on her knees to give René a blow job. While José did that, René looked at me with a big smile and said: ‘She knows how to do it, doesn’t she?’ I thought that was awesome. I didn’t feel any jealousy for a second, I knew I was in control. It was just all so exciting.
Still, it was finished after an hour and a half. I had just had an orgasm and José was kissing René when I had enough. I nudged José and asked if she wanted to continue. She said it didn’t matter to her, but I could tell from her face that she didn’t mind to end it. I grabbed a towel for René, threw it at him and said: ‘Okay buddy, go take a shower.’ He was taken aback. He had not yet had an orgasm and was enjoying my wife’s caresses. In one fell swoop I stopped the party. But hey, who pays decides and he was professional enough to understand not to continue.
René did not pose a threat to our relationship. It’s been three months now and I look back on it with great pleasure. We reminisce about the threesome especially when we have sex, and we can talk about it for years to come. If you invite the neighbor for a threesome, you still have to face him every day.
This was a one-off and without feelings or obligations and I have absolutely no regrets. It was my ultimate dream. Especially when José had my dick in her mouth and René’s cock in her pussy at the same time; I had created my own porn movie.”
Rene, the gigolo
René (37): “In the first email I received from José and Peter, they told me that they had had a disappointing experience with an erotic masseur. José wrote that he had been much too pushy and that he thought more about his own pleasure than he cared about hers. Let alone her boyfriend; Peter had been there a bit for show. So I knew I had to be careful because otherwise they might shy away. With that knowledge I went on my way to José and Peter.
I was pleasantly surprised by José’s appearance; a blonde lady with a gorgeous body. Ask a hundred men what they think of her and ninety-nine will say: beautiful. I started getting a little aroused about the idea of making out with her. José was also pleasant to deal with, probably because she works in the hospitality industry. Peter, a tall man with a broad torso, was very pleasant as well.
We had coffee and I suggested to José that the two of us go upstairs for a relaxing massage. That usually works best to put the woman at ease and get her used to my touch. At this stage I’m not doing anything erotic yet, it’s purely relaxing and the woman is still wearing her lingerie. I always work with long appointments of three to four hours, at an all-in price of € 300. This way, no one has the feeling that the meter is running and there is no time pressure.
José and I went to the bedroom for the massage, Peter stayed downstairs, but came to check every ten minutes. I then had a quick chat with him and asked him how he felt about me being with his girl. He also asked José how things were going. When she replied that everything was fine, he said, “Keep up the good work,” and went back downstairs.
All this time the door was open. I really didn’t want to give the impression that something was happening against their wishes. I put them at the center and kept asking if they still liked it. After an hour José had loosened up wonderfully. Peter came along and they started kissing, which made her feel even more relaxed. The starting signal for me to become more intimate, and I undressed her and myself and gave a body-to-body massage.
I tickled her back and buttocks and caressed her breasts. I let Peter enjoy it fully. We both sucked her nipples at the same time. Peter loved seeing us do this together. It was their ultimate fantasy that two men would do José at the same time.. And vice versa, that José would blow us. Or that one of us ate her pussy and she gave the other a blowjob.
I am 100% heterosexual myself, but I have no problems with the closeness of a naked man and his participation in relation to his partner. However, I will never do anything with him.
What I liked about this couple was that I made José squirt a few times. It is often a challenge to get sexually inexperienced women to feel where their G-spot is and to give them a squirting orgasm, but José already knew that. I think she managed to orgasm several times because we had such a good connection sexually.
After about two hours the game was over. After Peter had orgasmed, he said it was enough. I think José would have wanted to continue, but when the man says it’s enough, I stop. I had not yet had an orgasm myself and I felt sorry that it was already over. But I get paid to please my clients and whether or not I have an orgasm is of no importance. I then quickly left. Usually couples are tired but satisfied and want to be together again.
You can divide your dates into four groups. Single women between the ages of twenty-five and forty, recently divorced women and married women who are in an unhappy relationship where eroticism has disappeared. The last group that books me are couples who see a threesome as icing on the cake.
I never receive strange proposals and that is because I do not respond to vulgar emails. Respect is my priority, for both parties. I later received a thank-you email from José stating: ‘I make love with Peter, it was fun in bed with you’. Very nice to hear, then I know I did a good job.”